When I consider all my decades of education, professional and personal experience and collect my thoughts; what I conclude:
• You are feeling pretty bad about something or you would not be making this search. You want some part or, perhaps, several parts of your life to be working better. What used to work or what you are doing to improve the situation is not helping fast enough.
• We keep on doing what we know how to do until we learn something else that works better.
People are rarely all that sick or stupid or broken.
• People would change many areas and elements of their life if they knew what needs fixing and if they knew how to do it.
• People are a bit uncomfortable about making this first call but they also know it is time to do something.
ONCE AGAIN ... WELCOME