When I reflect on my decades of education, professional and personal experience and collect my thoughts; what I conclude:
• You are feeling pretty bad about something or you would not be making this search. You want some part or, perhaps, several parts of your life to be working better. What used to work or what you are doing to improve is not helping or is not helping fast enough.
• We keep on doing what we know how to do until we learn other things that work better.
People are rarely all that sick or stupid or broken.
• People would change many areas and elements of their life if they knew what needs some attention and if they knew what to do next.
• People are usually a bit uncomfortable about making a first call for information ... they also know it is time to do something.
ONCE AGAIN ... WELCOME